I haven’t blogged for a long time but thought it would be appropriate on this Good Friday as I have been reflecting on a lot of things. I hope you are all enjoying a blessed Triduum.
For some reason I am always drawn to a beautiful message I read years ago from the homily of Pope Benedict XVI during the Mass of the Lord’s Supper on April 13, 2006. These were powerful words about the depths of God’s love for humanity and the sacred events Christians recall during this week.
I have included a portion of the homily at the end of this blog entry. God’s love is indeed extreme and radical. I hope the words below bless you and remind you of the depths of God’s love for you personally. I am always reminded on Good Friday that God is very much at work in the midst of chaos and pain. We are never abandoned even as we groan for the fulfillment of hope (c.f. Romans 8:22).
This Lent has been a strange one for me walking through the intense grief of having lost my wonderful father back in December just before Christmas. I miss him terribly and sometimes the grief of loss overwhelms me. Out of nowhere a memory comes or song, etc, and I just feel powerless and tears just start forming in my eyes. Still, I know the Lord is with me and there are many important spiritual lessons to be learned through these difficult experiences.
The Lord is very much reminding me that part of our healing from grief lies in staying connected and involved in other people’s lives and realizing that we all struggle with grief and are supposed to reach out and comfort one another. I really appreciate the people who have been checking in with me and asking how I am getting along. There has been a real temptation for me to isolate myself but the Lord keeps reminding me to stay connected and engaged. I keep remembering an ad for “The Chosen” where Jesus says to his disciples, “I don’t need you to feel anything to do something great for me”. Emotions and feelings are part of life, but our desire should always be to walk by faith and not let them dominate our decision making. This isn’t easy. St. Ignatius of Loyola reminds us that the consolation is for the desolation. Somehow everything is working for our good (c.f. Romans 8:28) but there are moments like Good Friday where you are suspended in the loss and so eagerly await the joy of resurrection. I know it is coming!
I visited with Diana on Wednesday. She is a young mom who is dying of ovarian cancer and on hospice. She is my “Holy Week blessing” for this year and I was so impressed by her bright personality, sense of humor, and faith. Please pray for her and her family as they journey through this difficult time.
I have been going through some photos trying to put together a slideshow for a future celebration of life for my dad. I ran across the photo I have posted here of our pilgrimage to Ireland in 2012. My mom and dad as well as numerous parishioners from St. Brendan parish in Bothell and St. Vincent de Paul parish in Federal Way also joined us for the trip. It was a great experience filled with lots of laughter, great food, and getting acquainted with my Irish heritage.
Have a blessed Good Friday and most importantly I pray for a joyful celebration of Easter Sunday!
Here is part of the message from Pope Benedict XVI I referenced earlier:
Dear Brothers and Sisters,
“Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end” (Jn 13:1).
God loves his creature, man; he even loves him in his fall and does not leave him to himself. He loves him to the end. He is impelled with his love to the very end, to the extreme: he came down from his divine glory.
He cast aside the raiment of his divine glory and put on the garb of a slave. He came down to the extreme lowliness of our fall. He kneels before us and carries out for us the service of a slave: he washes our dirty feet so that we might be admitted to God’s banquet and be made worthy to take our place at his table—something that on our own we neither could nor would ever be able to do.
God is not a remote God, too distant or too great to be bothered with our trifles. Since God is great, he can also be concerned with small things. Since he is great, the soul of man, the same man, created through eternal love, is not a small thing but great, and worthy of God’s love.
God’s holiness is not merely an incandescent power before which we are obliged to withdraw, terrified. It is a power of love and therefore a purifying and healing power.
God descends and becomes a slave, he washes our feet so that we may come to his table. In this, the entire mystery of Jesus Christ is expressed. In this, what redemption means becomes visible.
The basin in which he washes us is his love, ready to face death. Only love has that purifying power which washes the grime from us and elevates us to God’s heights.
The basin that purifies us is God himself, who gives himself to us without reserve—to the very depths of his suffering and his death. He is ceaselessly this love that cleanses us; in the sacraments of purification—Baptism and the Sacrament of Penance—he is continually on his knees at our feet and carries out for us the service of a slave, the service of purification, making us capable of God.
His love is inexhaustible, it truly goes to the very end.
Benedict XVI, Homilies of His Holiness Benedict XVI (English) (Vatican City: Libreria Editrice Vaticana, 2013).
